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First Date Cheat Code for Men

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In a couple of weeks time, I'm gonna be back into the dating circuit. Well, not really a serious dating game to find my future partner-in-crime, instead to meet all my girlfriends who I've not been seeing for as long as I can remember. When I said 'girlfriends' - it's not the girlfriend girlfriend thing, okay; rather they're just my female friends. Got it? Ahaks! But yeah... all my friends can't wait to meet me again after being so long missing contact through all these years. From the colleagues at work, to my ex-uni mates and also my ex-schoolmates whom I haven't seen them for more than a decade and more! Me, I just can't wait too...

Recently I've just downloaded an app called 101 Cheats - an app that gives the bloke all these rubbish tips about life in general which I found quite helpful at the same time. Rubbish, but make sense, if I can put it that way (aren't we bloke love these kind of stuff? Lol). Anyway, one of them is a tip about dating. Yup. The dating cheat. Or as it precisely titles: First Date Cheat Code for Men.

So, what does it says? It's all described below. I add some of my thing too just to make it more sense (i.e. the color of your denim). Very interesting... but all I have to say: if you wanna apply it, do it at your own risk! =)

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Never tell a girl where you’re going or how to dress. Instead, tell her to "dress for a first date with a guy she really likes". Now, pick three places you'd like to go:

  1. Some place fun and active (bowling, pool, mini golf, go-kart racing, ballgame, etc),
  2. Something romantic and classy (nice restaurant, upscale lounge, art gallery opening) or,
  3. Something in between (nice bar, coffee shop, comedy club).

Now, when you pick her up let the way she's dressed decide which you’re going to do:

  1. If she's sporting some jeans, tennis shoes or flip-flops, and a tee, the bowling ally or pool hall may be a good bet.
  2. If she's wearing something sexy and revealing (dress, high heels, low cut top, etc.) than she wants to go somewhere classy and romantic.
  3. If she's wearing jeans, high heeled boots, and nice top or blouse, than she's not really jonesing for the super romance treatment, and she put in more effort than mini golf deserves (eighteen holes of minigolf in heels... seriously?), so a comedy club or some place with live music is a good choice.

And never, EVER, do a movie on the first date!

So, you... what are you gonna wear? Guys, you're going to wear a pair of clean, neat jeans (preferably darker shade of denim), a pressed stylish long sleeve button-down shirt, nice shoes or boots (try to avoid tennis shoes or sneakers). Works for ANY occasion!

Along the time when you're with her when suddenly you've forgotten her name, simply say : "I'm sorry, but what was your name one more time." She may act offended, but when she give you there first name you simply reply "No, I meant your last name." (more socially acceptable to forget). Bingo; first and last names! Brilliant.

Another thing that is so important: Have confidence. Why? Coz chicks dig confidence! (but don't be cocky!) =)

[source: 101 Cheats iPhone app]

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