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For me, I have quite a history with eyeliner since I used to wear it during my childhood years at the age of 11 or 12 - when I found a metal case with the celak inside on my parents' vanity table. It looks so artfully classic, by which I think it's a gift to my mum from someone who just came back from the pilgrimage. The stuff is made of powder and I remembered to always be careful not to let it get into my eyes - coz getting it out is so troublesome!
Apart from the cultural side of it, I like eyeliner coz it made the eyes pop (hence it enters the 'pop' culture). Especially when you made it like this smoky, kohl look with thick black line under the eyelids. Like the models at Gucci during the Autumn/Winter 2008/09 - they looks fantastic and very edgy!
Going back to my childhood days, I wore it to school and my teachers always asked "doesn't your mum mind you wear the eyeliner?". My reply is easy: "No. It's a sunnah, what? And she's a make-up artist herself, so why would she mind?". I know why they asked me coz I'm not using the powder celak, but the one like a paste which is easier to be applied to the undereye lids. I stole it from my mum's make-up bag - a big duffel bag - the one she used to take with her when she goes for the andaman thing. The problem with the paste-like eyeliner, when it comes to the afternoon as the temperature rises, the eyeliner is also 'melting' - making the black thing 'trickle' down with the sweat and made me look more goth than rock'n'roll! Or a panda, if you may. Kinda funny, but those are the days dude...
Anyway. A couple of weeks back, I found my some other family member wears kohl - my 18-year old nephew. It looks awesome since he also got this rock'n'roll attitude to go along with it as well. And that's when I decided to 'revisit' my childhood days again and reapply kohl one more time.
So, what did I do? I went for a search to some nearby store and found this black eyeliner by Cyber Colors. It's a gel version, much like the paste that I previously used. I actually wanna get L'oreal HiP Kohl but it's not in the market here. What I like about this one is how the eyeliner stays without mess. No 'trickling' down with the sweat unlike my previous one. No powder, and it's better since it doesn't get into the eyes especially that I'm wearing contacts. Just perfect. It comes with this tiny applicator so that I can 'draw' the black line on the eyelids easily without buying any separate brush or something.
I like wearing it with a slight smoky look. So, what I do is first to apply a thick line on the upper eye lids and on the waterline; then using my finger, I smudge it a bit so that I get this shadowy for the whole eyes area. Does it made the whole eyes pop? Absolutely. It made the eyes appear voila! (though the pix is not truly showing..and more to 'black rings'. Erkss!). I think I might wear it next week when I'm hosting a big event again - so that people can go whoa...! Plus it looks good on camera. Ha!
And then, as if from nowhere, a new generation of gents began to exfoliate en masse, creating an industry that was last estimated to be worth some £427m. In the UK today, the men’s grooming sector is growing at twice the rate of the women’s market, with 25 per cent of men using a moisturiser and 39 per cent opting for a facial cleanser instead of soap and water according to L’Oréal.
It would appear there’s more to men’s grooming than the frivolity of vanity. The journey from carbolic soap to cosmetic serums — from Neanderthal to narcissist — has been a long one, influenced by fashion, economics, sociology and the malleability of modern masculinity.
Contrary to popular belief, it was not the ‘metrosexual’ boom that marked a turning point. Fifteen years ago, when journalist Mark Simpson penned that term in The Independent, he was referring to a minority of high-networth City boys. The label was then misappropriated and became a marketing device to flog moisturiser to the masses. The only problem was that few men actually knew what moisturiser was. In 1994, the metrosexual was little more than an urban myth and the fact that men instinctively equated metrosexuality with emasculation made grooming even more of a culturally fraught concept.
Richard Sawyer, international education director of Lab Series Skincare For Men, adds: “The media explosion telling men it’s OK to moisturise and smell good has a lot to do with them becoming more comfortable with skincare and grooming products. Back in the day, I used to hide all my lotions. Which is rather strange as I lived alone.”
The gradual shedding of the cultural taboo surrounding men’s grooming ties in perfectly with an ongoing redefinition of gendered roles in society. For the first time in history, men are being given permission to confront their self-image, expectations, goals, fears and faults in a way that does not undermine their masculinity. And, after all, the motivation to groom is grounded first and foremost in a desire to gain confidence, according to 72 per cent of men. “Being well-groomed has a positive impact on how I feel about myself and how well I perform in other areas of my life,” says Stuart, a 30-year-old investment banker.
The increasing efficacy of products is hugely important when you consider that most of us only start grooming when hair is lost or goes grey, when that paunch begins to grow or you spot your first wrinkle. Fear and confidence aren’t mutually exclusive states when it comes to understanding why men have begun to preen.
Granted, we might be taking better care of our appearance but we’re still rubbish at getting direction. “If men are still a little nervous about going up to a counter and asking for help, imagine what it was like 10 or 20 years ago,” adds Sawyer. It’s no surprise that guys would sooner simply pinch their girlfriend’s products or turn to Google to help them find the right items. It stands to reason, then, that the most popular products are ones that can be grabbed from the shelf without the help of a skincare consultant.
Bestsellers include Hydra Energetic Moisturiser by L’Oreal Men Expert, one of which is sold every 30 seconds, and the Sensitive Post Shave Balm by Nivea For Men, a lightweight lotion that makes its way into one in 10 shopping baskets. At under £10, both are well within the budget of the thriftiest man. The designer brands, on the other hand, excel in the competitive world of fragrance, which still constitutes the lion’s share of the men’s grooming industry.
There is, of course, the kind of gent with a more acquired sense of aesthetics. When Cristiano Ronaldo (arguably the most questionable barometer of nouveau masculinity since David Beckham) appears in ad campaigns expertly waxed, seemingly spray-tanned and sporting an eyebrow arch that would put Joan Crawford to shame, there is a contingent of men who will inevitably emulate him. These high-maintenance men now make up 40 per cent of the customers at Debenhams brow bars, they get their six packs sprayed on by professional tan artists and de-forest their bodies by way of a regular ‘boyzilian’.
More extreme yet is the growing penchant for plastic surgery among men. Leading cosmetic surgery provider The Hospital Group reports a 117 per cent increase in men requesting liposuction. The stomach is the most common area for treatment, but ‘moobs’ (technically known as gynaecomastia) come in a close second. Macrolane, which was originally marketed to women as a ‘boob job in a jab’, is now being used for penile enhancement. The latest and craziest treatment is ‘dimpleplasty’, whereby men can achieve a Travolta-esque chin cleft by suturing the muscle to the bone to create a permanent indent.
Of course, the surgery path is not a route we’ll all take but it’s a fascinating marker in the male grooming journey; caring for one’s appearance is no longer the domain of Los Angeles residents and body builders. The real man, the everyday bloke on the street, is now making the most of himself, and doesn’t he look good for it?
Busy is good? Of course, it is. Busy is good because it makes your time filled with activities. Busy is good because you don't have to wander around thinking or doing nothing. Busy is also good for your health, at times... especially if it involved you to being physical (I don't mean that you need to knock someone down, okay). If it involved some financial gains, busy can make you richer too, since the more work you do the more money you get, right? So, yes. Busy is good.
Yet, as things have its own yin and yang, being busy has its own downside. You tend to focus on one thing while at the same time neglect other things like meeting your friends and family. Being busy is always conjoin with high pressure; the tense and stress situation you're in trying to get lots of things being completed. Coupled that with sleepless nights and round-the-clock tatt (tired all the time), busy is however is on the other side of being 'healthy' as well. Your skin will be affected, your hair will look kinda dull and lifeless, your health deteriorate... so, is it worth trying to be too busy?
One example is this pix which I look in horror after finding Francisco Lachowski at Ferre Spring/Summer 2011 catwalk show. Eeek! This face did no justice to the good-looking bloke of he is. But, that's the fact that one has to face when working in front of public eyes; not only people will capture your pix all the time, but the worst is - every flaw that you have will also get accentuated, yet alone will be under scrutiny. This is one of the perfect 'little' example of how busy-ness can get to you. Less rest, making your hormone change which is then affecting your skin. That's why the zit pops up. And the puffy eyes... well, that's easy. It means you have lack of rest, that is. Since the face is your asset, how can you fake the beauty so that all the puffy eyes and the zit doesn't show that you're actually 'restless'?
Easy and doable. This is based on experience since in the previous week I happen to go thru the similar situation - being restless. But I fake it with these two magic sticks.
1. L'oreal MenExpert Hydra Energetic Eye Roll-on. My hands down, coz this stuff works! Well, at least for me coz there's someone say this is nothing but just a caffeinated water. But hey, if it works on me, then I can say... yes, it does de-puff your eyes, turning any puffy eyes to the puppy one. I've been using it for months now, and my sis is also amazed that not only the eyebags are gone, the black 'ring' under it is also a history. You can read my previous post about this one.
2. L'oreal MenExpert Pure & Matte Anti Mark Roll-on. This is a new product released by L'oreal for Asian market. This stuff is quite similar in function to the Garnier Pure Active Anti Spot Roll-on, which I think is more to the ladies than gents. How does this thing function? Well, let me tell a story first. It was about 4 days before the big event I'm hosting, I'm suddenly having all kind of stress which in turn pop some zits on my face. Some is bad one, and at bad location which is truly visible in front of the camera. which is more horror than you can imagine. But thankfully this come to the rescue.
This product claims to reduce and prevent the appearance of acne marks, though that I dunno whether it does its job or not. But one thing for sure, some small 'pop-ups' on my face really gone in just a day, after I applied it twice. The bad one though (with the yellowish thing, urrghh)... that took bit longer which is about 3 days. I think that's fair enough knowing the fact that more bacteria have to be completely 'knocked' down by the potion. By the end of the week prior the event I'm hosting, I'm truly glad the skin is way much better.
What I like about those products is, not only that they works (coz I used them okay...), but they're easy to use. Just roll it on and voila! The magic happens! And it's cleaner - since you don't have to get your fingers spoiled with all the messy gel or cream stuff like what you find from other brands. This thing is also very small, making it slipping into your pockets is not a problem (talking about being discreet, right?).
So, for you guys who wanna fake your good night sleep - use these. Why? It's L'oreal - because you're worth it! (ahaks!)
Now that we're in the new milennium, in the new Teenies (that's 2010s for you lot), grooming is no longer becoming a thing in the past. No longer you have to secretly sneak out to buy that facial cleanser. Or be totally discreet when you came home with a moisturizer in your grocery bag. Or hiding behind a newspaper just to slap on those lipgloss for your chappy lips. In fact, now that the world has become so competitive where jobmarket out there is like a warzone by itself, men has to look as equally put together and presentable as the fairer sex do.
So guys, 'cleaning' up yourself is so the vital thing. It's time to groom ourselves : get those hideous nasal hair out of sight, zap those zits out from the T-zone, turn that puffy eyes to puppy one and put on those moisturizer to turn back time... coz it's time for us to take the 'revenge' too!
In the meantime, read this article from the Evening Standard...
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[source: evening standard, 06/10/2010]
Tuesday, 3rd August.
Location: in the new southbound Victoria Line Tube
I was feeling much better after 2 days before I was hit by a minor flu. Running nose, heavy-headed, and not to mention - lots of lying on the bed, resting. Thank God for the iPhone... I don't have to wake up to check my emails though. =)
So, on Tuesday I decided to go to college though I'm still not feeling that well. But much better than the previous day. And decided to perk up my mood by dressing up a bit. At least I can keep my spirit up. With my ruched shirt by Zara which I got last week for just £9 (down from £30!), the Uniqlo selvedge skinny jeans and my cropped sleeves black slim blazer, paired with my Hugo Boss brogue boots - I head out from the house down to the tube station.
There's not many people, fortunately. Probably it's almost 10 am, where the peak hours is already passed. Not so long waiting, when about a minute after the new Victoria Line tube finally arrived. Yeay! I love the new train coz they're cleaner. And more space. But the crowd inside kinda packed with people. Huh... how can this be? Probably so many people up north trying to go down south, I guess.
So, I boarded into the middle coach. Standing. In front of a lady that looks quite business, in all the blazer and knee-length skirt, paired with mid-heel peep toe shoes. And then this happens...
Lady: Ahchoo..!
Me : Bless you. *smile*
Lady: Thank you... Btw, you smell nice, that's why I sneeze...
Me: *smile* (big grin actually!)
In my mind; is she being cynical... or is it true that I smell nice that morning? I know I kinda 'oversprayed' my Carolina Herera Chic perfume coz I'm a bit late to college (fashionably late, ahaks). But sneeze? Haha! I hope she's really honest. Her 'action' says it all.
It's not my first time that i made people sneeze. Everytime I wore Chic, it's either the minor 'sneezing' or people smile when they look at me. Hmmm... ever wonder the 'sensual musk' formulation in Chic really the main culprit? That's a mystery... =)
#1 (blue) is Sporty, #2 (red) is Seductive, #3 (green) is Adventurous and #4 (yellow) is Stylish. (Now they seem to name like the Spice Girls, lol). Having tested all of them at Boots recently, my personal picks are #1 and #3 coz they are very fresh and quite citrusy, just like what a typical Scorpio would love. Oh, the bottle only come in 75 mL version, so big that it's handful! But, if you like to have 'em all, there's also a giftset version in 15 mL bottle of each fragrance.

On the clothing side that is inspired by Equestrian is by Topman, with their latest LTD range featuring 'horses' on the sweater, t-shirt and vest. Quite nice, though I can't find 'em in their flagship store in Oxford Circus. I like the vest coz the horses doesn't really showing too 'eagerly' unlike both of the jumper and the t-shirt where you can really see the horse head even from 1 miles away. Ahaks. Oh, they also got a jodhpur pants, which is also inspired by the sport.
New women's fragrance by Gucci.
Featuring Evan Rachel Wood and Chris Evans.


If there's only one fashion credential that is understood by any man - be it the high fashion guy in skinny suit, or a regular dude who strut his stuff in a comfy Converse, or even an alpha male builder working by the street; it's the perfume. Some might not even heard of the words like Dolce & Gabbana shirt, Chanel tweed jacket or Armani suit - but one thing all of those people have in common is - ooh, that smells good! Yes. One item that is surely gonna be a hit if you wanna buy for any man - is the perfume. Believe me, I know. I bought a polo shirt for my big bro last year, only to know that he gave it away to my niece! Read: my niece. But when I give a CK Man to him... aha! I hit the jackpot, coz he uses it. And loving it. Period.
So, when you wanna give your dad or your brother or whoever guy you stumbled upon - that's for sure he's gonna keep it, give the perfume. Coz we, men - love to be scent-sational!
Should you have any doubt what kind of perfume to buy, the weekly mag for the alpha male , Sport, gave you some out there - from the classic range that stood strong through the years, to the current season's scents and also the upcoming arrays that's just or gonna hit the shelves soon. To me, one important criteria of choosing perfume for other people (or even for myself): learn their personalities. Then you'll match the perfume to that credo!
[pix from sport mag, 16/07/10]
One perfume that is definitely worth checking out soon is the Davidoff Champion. The whole concept is related to sports, including the design of the bottle: in a shape of a dumbell. Its dark, cylindrical bottle is made of heavy glass, decorated with stylized silver metal "weights". Man who identifies his lifestyle with the concept of the fragrance can certainly say that sports are an integral part of his life. Success and power are also important to him, as well as setting a target - his goal being victory. He wants to succeed and be the best!